The Divorce Atelier: Master the Art of a Boring Divorce

The 11/11 sale

Iman Ibrahim, former family lawyer, mediator, divorce coach

Boring means prepared: no surprises, no drama, nothing that anyone can use against you.

Five offers, one a day. Pick the offer that fits where you are (there may be more than one).

Sat 7 November 2026 to Wed 11 November 2026. One offer opens each morning at 9:00am SGT and stays open for 24 hours, until 8:59am SGT the next day. All prices are in Singapore dollars (S$).

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This page is the catalogue. Each offer’s link goes out by email at 9:00am SGT on its day.

How the sale works

5 offers, 1 a day, Saturday 7 November 2026 to Wednesday 11 November 2026. A new offer opens each day. All prices are in Singapore dollars.

Start with six buckets

A divorce arrives as one large pile. Sorting it into six buckets makes the pile smaller: Feelings, Get Advice, Find Out, Do, Not Yet (anything that has to wait) and Decide.

Each offer this week fits one or more of the buckets.

Day 1, Sat 7 November 2026

Know Your Numbers

The offer you may need if you don’t know what your numbers are.

Find Out

Day 2, Sun 8 November 2026

The Planning Day

A roadmap, and the actions you need to take over the next 90 days.

Do

Day 3, Mon 9 November 2026

Coach Your Damn Self

A self-paced way to coach yourself: the questions I use most often when I coach my clients, organised by scenario.

FeelingsFind OutDoNot YetDecide

Day 4, Tue 10 November 2026

Mediation preparation

For people who have a mediation date, or are heading towards mediation.

Get AdviceNot Yet

Day 5, Wed 11 November 2026

Foundation Plus

The Foundation Course, with four live sessions to test it on your own case.

Decide

Pick your route

Run it yourself, or do it with me. Each offer has its own price.

Client A

Wants to do it all with me.

Client B

Wants to do it themselves.

Saturday 7 November 2026
Opens 9:00am SGT

Know Your Numbers

The boring divorce starts with boring math.

S$20 offAbout 34% off

S$58S$38

S$20 off the regular price.

Closes Sunday 8 November 2026, 8:59am SGT.

Bucket: Find Out

Know exactly what you have before anyone asks you to sign anything. Most people walk into the hardest negotiation of their life not knowing their own numbers. This is a self-paced, guided course for finding, organising and testing the numbers that matter: what you spend, what comes in, what you own, what you owe and what life might cost. You finish with a working picture of your finances and a list of what you still need to find out.

You may not know every answer by the end. You’ll know what the questions are, and which numbers you can actually rely on.

Who it’s for. Anyone contemplating, preparing for, going through or sorting out a divorce or separation who does not have a reliable picture of their own finances. That includes people who never ran the household money and people with variable or self-employed income.

What’s included

  • The Know Your Numbers course (reg S$58): seven parts in Thrive Academy, from Start Here to Putting It All Together. The worked examples follow a fictional but realistic household.
  • Investigate Your Numbers: a guided investigation workbook with five sections.
  • Crunch Your Numbers: an expense calculator that helps you pin down what you really spend.
  • Your Money Map: a spreadsheet that pulls your results together: current expenses, income, assets, debts, future expenses and one-off cash for the transition.
  • V, E or ? on every figure: verified, estimated or unknown, so you can see which numbers hold up.

Self-paced. Work through it over a few evenings or weekends, and return as you gather more information. You get access on purchase.

It gives you a working picture of your own finances. It is not financial advice, legal advice, a formal disclosure document or a settlement calculator, and it does not promise an outcome. No refunds, because it is a digital product.

See what is inside (PDF)

The link to buy goes out by email at 9:00am SGT on Saturday 7 November 2026. Not on the list yet? Join here.

Sunday 8 November 2026
Opens 9:00am SGT

The Planning Day

A day with me, and you leave with a dated plan you wrote yourself instead of a year of guessing.

S$690 off5 spots, fixed dates

S$1,288S$598

S$690 off the regular price. One price, fixed dates.

Closes Monday 9 November 2026, 8:59am SGT.

Available dates: Fri 4 December 2026, Mon 7 December 2026, Sat 12 December 2026, Mon 14 December 2026 and Sat 19 December 2026.

Bucket: Do

One private day with me on Zoom, one person, not recorded. You arrive with a messy, emotional situation and leave with a dated 90-day plan you wrote yourself, a Day 30 report, three first actions with dates and a short list of questions for your advisers.

The free Divorce Planning class covers your next 30 days. That is the first folder. The Planning Day is the second folder: it builds your 90 days, and you run it again at day 30, 60 and 90.

It is a working day. It runs 9:00am to about 3:15pm SGT, in twelve steps across three sessions, with breaks for tea and lunch. It also works through the three layers of a legal question: the question you would ask a lawyer, the decision underneath it, and the reality test nobody has run yet. I question you and challenge you on your actual facts.

Who it’s for. People thinking about divorce, preparing for it, or early in proceedings who need control back. It is not tied to filing. Your plan might be getting advice, mediating, sorting out parenting, or deliberately waiting.

What you leave with

  • Your pressure map, capacity check and North Star: where divorce is hitting hardest, what you can realistically take on in the next 90 days, and what this is for.
  • Your route, and what is decided when: what you decide now, what waits, what waits for advice, and which route you are on.
  • A dated 90-day roadmap, three first actions with dates and your Day 30 report, all in one workbook, plus a short list of questions for your advisers.
  • Written replies at day 30, 60 and 90, included in the price: you send me a one-page update and I reply once, in writing or on a recording, within 3 working days. There is no live call.
  • Before the day: a short intake questionnaire and document list (about 20 minutes), sent after you buy. After the day: emails over the following three weeks.

The picture I work towards. Day 1, every email from the other side makes your stomach drop. Day 90, one arrives, you reply in four lines and go and make dinner.

The honest limit: in 90 days your file, your responses, your decisions and your stress can change. The other side may not, and the divorce itself will still be the divorce.

Terms

  • Five private dates: Fri 4 December 2026, Mon 7 December 2026, Sat 12 December 2026, Mon 14 December 2026 and Sat 19 December 2026. One person per date. You pick your date at checkout.
  • No reschedule. On Zoom. Private sessions are not recorded.
  • Refunds: you can get a refund if you cancel more than 7 working days before your date. There is no moving to another date.
  • Coaching and strategic planning, not legal advice. Keep your own lawyer for legal advice.

Prefer a small group? Group Planning Days are also available, online, with the same twelve steps, in men’s and women’s editions. The November editions are S$248. The January and February editions are S$298. The private day is the version with me one to one.

  • Women’s edition, Sat 28 November 2026, S$248
  • Men’s edition, Sun 29 November 2026, S$248
  • Men’s edition, Sat 16 January 2027, S$298
  • Women’s edition, Sun 17 January 2027, S$298
  • Women’s edition, Sat 27 February 2027, S$298
  • Men’s edition, Sun 28 February 2027, S$298

The group edition links are sent by email, with the Planning Day link.

See the full Planning Day page

The link to buy goes out by email at 9:00am SGT on Sunday 8 November 2026. Not on the list yet? Join here.

Monday 9 November 2026
Opens 9:00am SGT

Coach Your Damn Self

Because sometimes the best person to ask is you.

S$17 offBrand new

S$28S$11

Launch price. One-time purchase, yours to keep.

Closes Tuesday 10 November 2026, 8:59am SGT.

Buckets: Feelings, Find Out, Do, Not Yet, Decide

260 questions. 25 guided pathways. One better conversation with yourself. A beautifully designed, self-guided coaching book by Over It Club, for anyone who wants a really good question and nobody telling them what to do.

This is also a book for life beyond divorce. You can keep using it throughout your life, whether or not you are going through a divorce.

You know what is bothering you: stuck, overthinking, furious with someone, can’t make a decision, afraid of disappointing people. What kind of coaching that calls for is the part you can leave open. Use it with your journal or notebook, wherever you like to think. It helps you think through a problem with more clarity, self-awareness and intention. From “I don’t know what to do” to “I understand my options better”. Feeling stuck? There’s a pathway for that.

This isn’t a book you finish. It’s a book you come back to.

What’s included

  • 25 guided pathways: for when something specific is going on. Find the one that sounds like your situation and follow the questions in order. Each has six to nine questions. Titles like “I’m furious with someone”, “I can’t make a decision”, “I know what to do. I’m not doing it” and “I don’t know how to be okay with uncertainty”.
  • 260 coaching questions in 13 categories:
    • What The Hell Is Going On?
    • What Do I Actually Want?
    • The Stories I Tell Myself
    • Decisions, Decisions
    • Things I Can’t Control
    • Other People Are Exhausting
    • Why Am I Still Doing This?
    • The Uncomfortable Truth
    • What Am I Afraid Of?
    • What Happens Next?
    • Who Am I Becoming?
    • When Is Enough Enough?
    • The Life I’m Actually Living
  • A PDF, emailed straight after checkout, with the download link on the success page too.
  • By Over It Club: a collection of the questions I use most often, the ones that get people thinking and get them unstuck.

S$11 is the launch price. The regular price is S$28. It is a book of questions that helps you think. It does not promise to change your life, and it is not legal advice. No refunds, because it is a digital product.

See inside the book (PDF)

The link to buy goes out by email at 9:00am SGT on Monday 9 November 2026. Not on the list yet? Join here.

Tuesday 10 November 2026
Opens 9:00am SGT

The Mediation Prep Pass

Includes the Mediation Arc masterclass.

Walk into mediation like you’ve done this before.

S$612 off5 spots, 1:1 with me

S$1,500S$888

S$612 off the regular price. Each spot is one-to-one time with me.

Closes Wednesday 11 November 2026, 8:59am SGT.

Buckets: Get Advice, Not Yet

Know what to say, and when to say nothing. Most people prepare for mediation by rehearsing the argument. Very few work out, before they walk in, what they can agree to and where they will walk away. A successful mediation can save thousands in litigation costs.

The Prep Pass is 2.5 hours of 1:1 time with me on Zoom, on your own case. It prepares you as well as the negotiation: what is on the table, what is not, and how you conduct yourself in the room. It is prep for your case with someone who spent 19 years in family law, not general divorce coaching. It is not the same as the Planning Day, which is the start of a plan.

Who it’s for. Anyone heading into mediation who doesn’t want to walk in blind. Mediation coming up: use the pass now. Mediation likely but not scheduled: do the masterclass now and keep the prep for when the date is set.

If you are earlier in the process, you will want the whole method on Day 5, Foundation Plus.

What’s included

  • The Mediation Arc masterclass (reg S$108): a self-paced mediation preparation program based on how mediation works in Singapore. You work out your priorities and trade-offs, how you will negotiate, and how to prepare before the room, in the room and after the room. Available straight away.
  • Prep session, 90 minutes, 1:1 on Zoom, ideally 1 to 2 weeks before your mediation.
  • Final run-through, 30 minutes, in the last few days before it.
  • Debrief, 30 minutes, optional, after the mediation.
  • Bonus live Q&A with me on Thu 14 January 2027, 8:00pm SGT, on Zoom. Bundle buyers send their questions first and theirs are answered first.

How it works

  • Buy the Prep Pass.
  • Fill in the Mediation Readiness Application. It is short, and it comes with a complimentary 15-minute Zoom call to go over the result.
  • When you are ready to book, fill in the Mediation Prep Intake. It is a detailed form about your case, and I read it before the session.
  • Book your sessions around your mediation date.

Terms

  • Validity: the prep and run-through sessions can be used for mediation prep within 9 months of purchase.
  • Debrief: optional. It must take place within 2 weeks of the mediation date, and that can fall after the 9 months.
  • Conversion: if you do not use it for mediation prep within 9 months, or you decide mediation is not the right route, it converts to 2 hours of 1:1 coaching with me, to be used within 3 months of converting. The debrief falls away on conversion. You can convert at any time. Once converted, it cannot be switched back.
  • Refunds: none. Conversion to coaching is the safety net.
  • Delivery: all sessions, the readiness call and the live Q&A are on Zoom.
  • Scope: this is coaching, not legal advice. I am a former family lawyer, but I do not act for or advise anyone on their legal entitlements in this offer. Keep your own lawyer for legal advice.
  • Safety: if the readiness application shows family violence or a PPO application, I will talk you through your options on the call. Mediation may not be the right route in those cases.
See the full Mediation Prep page

The link to buy goes out by email at 9:00am SGT on Tuesday 10 November 2026. Not on the list yet? Join here.

The Mediation Arc: self-study version

S$108S$98

S$10 off. The masterclasses are available straight away. Bonus live Q&A on Thu 14 January 2027, 8:00pm SGT on Zoom. This option has no 1:1 time and no Prep Pass.

Wednesday 11 November 2026 (11/11)
Opens 9:00am SGT

Foundation Plus

The Foundation Course, with four live sessions to test it on your own case.

Get ready to be single on Singles’ Day.

5 placesIntroductory price11/11 only

S$1,111

An introductory price, for 11/11 only. The Foundation Course on its own stays available at S$398.

Closes Thursday 12 November 2026, 8:59am SGT.

Bucket: Decide

Knowing the framework and using it at 11pm are two different skills.

The Foundation Course gives you the base. You steady your judgement when it is flooded, get a clear read of your finances, learn to communicate in a way that holds up when a lawyer or judge reads it, and prepare for the negotiation. It is built to be done alone, at your own pace.

That is also its limit. Nobody reads your draft message. Nobody pushes back on your walkaway point. You find out whether it works when it is live and expensive.

Foundation Plus closes that gap. It is the same course, with two private sessions to fit it to your situation and two group sessions where you practise communication and negotiation on real material, anonymised, and get feedback while it still costs you nothing.

Who it’s for. You are early to mid process, in problem-solving mode, and want your work on the course checked against a real person and a real situation. You are willing to do the workbooks before each session, because the sessions build on them.

Who it’s not for. It is not enough if your case is very high conflict and needs a solution built around it, or if there is a safety concern at home. A group course will not do that work. It is also not legal advice, and it is not therapy.

What’s included

  • The full Foundation Course (S$398 on its own): four modules plus a short orientation module, workbooks and video lessons (about 5 hours of video), self-paced on Thrive Academy, with lifetime access. The modules are Before You Do Anything, Know Where You Stand, Communication That Protects You and The Negotiation Blueprint.
  • Two bonuses and a companion document: The Decision Workbook (five decision frameworks), The Comms Scripts (twenty scripts) and “When You Stall” (six divorce-specific thinking traps).
  • Private Session 1: Where you are. One hour, one to one. Book any time from 1 December 2026 up to 11 January 2027. You tell me what is happening, I tell you what matters and what doesn’t, and we work out which decisions are in front of you now and which parts of the course to lean on hardest. You leave with a written summary of where you stand and what to prioritise.
  • Group Session 1: Communication, in practice. Tue 12 January 2027, 8:00pm SGT, up to 90 minutes, five people. We take a real message from your divorce, rewrite it live and hear how it reads to someone who is not you. You leave with a rewritten message you can send, and communication rules that have been tested on someone other than yourself.
  • Group Session 2: Negotiation, in practice. Tue 19 January 2027, 8:00pm SGT, up to 90 minutes, the same five. We make offers and respond to them in role-play, with pushback, so you find out where your plan holds and where it folds. You leave with a trade-off map, a walkaway point that has been pushed on and a first offer you have rehearsed.
  • Private Session 2: Your next move. One hour, one to one. Book between 22 February 2027 and 31 March 2027. It turns the framework and the practice into a decision about what you do next and what you take to your lawyer or mediator. You leave with a written next-steps plan.

For the group sessions, you send me your material ahead of time. I take out names and identifying details and work on the anonymised version live. Nobody discusses your situation, and you do not have to say anything about your life.

Terms

  • Five places. This is a real cap.
  • Course access is immediate on purchase (from Wed 11 November 2026) and lasts for life.
  • Private Session 1 must be booked and used by 11 January 2027. Private Session 2 must be booked between 22 February 2027 and 31 March 2027. A private session not booked by the end of its window expires. One reschedule is included for the private sessions only.
  • The group sessions are on fixed dates, Tue 12 January 2027 and Tue 19 January 2027, 8:00pm SGT. There are no make-ups for a missed group session, so make sure you are free on both dates before you buy. The groups are mixed. There are no men’s or women’s editions.
  • The groups are recorded for my own records only. Recordings are not shared with buyers. You agree to this at checkout.
  • Conflict check: the checkout collects the full name of your spouse or former spouse, and I check it within a few days of purchase, well before 12 January 2027. If you are both on an amicable footing and both agree, you can both attend the private and group sessions. If you are not on an amicable footing, or either of you has concerns, the later purchaser is removed from the offer and refunded in full.
  • Confidentiality: keep what you hear in the group to yourself.
  • No refunds, except a full refund where the conflict check removes you.
  • This is coaching, not legal advice. The course is not therapy, and no outcome is guaranteed.
See the full Foundation Plus details (PDF)

The link to buy goes out by email at 9:00am SGT on Wednesday 11 November 2026. Not on the list yet? Join here.

Questions

Where do I get the link to buy?

By email only, at 9:00am SGT on the day the offer opens. This page is the catalogue, so there is nothing to buy here. If you are not on the list yet, join here.

When does each offer open and close?

Each offer opens at 9:00am SGT and closes at 8:59am SGT the next morning, so everyone gets a full 24 hours. Prices are in Singapore dollars. Put the dates in your calendar and watch your inbox each morning.

What time is that where I live?

9:00am SGT is 1:00am in London, 12:00pm in Sydney and 8:00pm the evening before in New York.

How do I get access after I buy?

Know Your Numbers and the Foundation Course open on purchase, on Thrive Academy. Coach Your Damn Self is a PDF emailed straight after checkout, with the link on the success page too. The Mediation Arc masterclass is available straight away, and the 1:1 sessions in the Prep Pass are booked around your mediation date. For the Planning Day, you pick your date at checkout and receive the intake questionnaire and document list afterwards. For Foundation Plus, the course is immediate and the private and group sessions are booked in the windows above.

Can I buy more than one?

Yes. Each offer is separate and has its own price.

Is this legal advice?

No. Everything here is coaching, planning or self-guided material, and none of it is financial advice either. I am a former family lawyer, but I do not act for or advise anyone on their legal entitlements in these offers. Keep your own lawyer for legal advice.

What is the refund policy?

Know Your Numbers and Coach Your Damn Self are digital products, so there are no refunds. The Planning Day can be refunded if you cancel more than 7 working days before your date. The Mediation Prep Pass and Foundation Plus have their own terms, shown in their sections.

Be Boring.

Boring means prepared. Pick the offer that fits where you are.

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